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Órla Kenny's avatar

Thanks for reminding me of that song by James Blunt. I love his voice.. so distinct.

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Marcus Malesela's avatar

You can say that again, same version as Sam Smith 😉

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Órla Kenny's avatar

I hadn't heard of Sam Smith.. I had to look him up. :) Thanks for sharing the music.

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Richbee's avatar

Joy of life

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The Braver Mom's avatar

The absence of envy and attachment is a gift. I am glad you are there. I am working on being closer to that state.

Watching children, it is always a sweet, relaxing experience...prompts us to ponder on life's more important things.

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Marcus Malesela's avatar

I know from your situation that you do understand it better than I do.

Thanks for the continuous support.

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Richbee's avatar

Keen observation as childhood opened our eyes but they closed in time like the books read to gather information, but age has merits to reflect to see a bit cloudy the time passed and put new thoughts tossed in a salad of memories that when reread discover our secrets disguised as hidden treasures locked away with the sounds of children instantly replaying the same games you knew with laughter that rises spontaneously from within the moments of friendship now past writing and you are left with an ounce of happiness to still give to others sharing your vision with eyes open to the little time left. Keep writing and your vision will improve with clarity. Even helps to close eyes to still the mind as Gurus have done to inspire us to take one step closer on the road to reconciliation with yourself.

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Marcus Malesela's avatar

@Richard, I tried to translate your input. And I was amazed at what came out.

"As we grew older, our perspective widened like the pages of a book filled with knowledge, but eventually, it closed shut with time.

As we age, we have the opportunity to look back and see the blurry memories of the past, mixed with new thoughts and emotions like a tossed salad of nostalgia. When we revisit our past, we unearth hidden secrets and cherished memories that were once locked away with our childhood innocence.

Playing old games brings back laughter and joy, reminding us of the friendships and moments that shaped us. Reflecting on the past brings a sense of happiness and fulfillment, allowing us to share our experiences and wisdom with others before time runs out."

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Richbee's avatar

Vision of koi de vie

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Richbee's avatar

Joy of life

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Marcus Malesela's avatar

Remember, Realize and Rejoice.

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Lulu deCarron's avatar

A psychiatrist Friend told me that my ability to delight in small moments is what helped me to get through some difficult days.

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Marcus Malesela's avatar

Happy to hear that Lulu. Little things are important, not because of what they are in themselves, but because they can be part of something greater.

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Raveen's avatar

‘…the importance of living in the present and finding joy in the small things.’

Yeah, agreed. It’s important that as we grow older, we don’t forget to consistently observe and appreciate the small things in life.

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Marcus Malesela's avatar

One scripture comes to mind, "Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content." Philippians 4:11

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Basma Taha's avatar

Solitude can help you take a step by to wonder, appreciate what you have, and cherish the simple things in life.

Thank you for the reminder, Marcus!

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Marcus Malesela's avatar

Sometimes we miss to cherish this little moments in our lives because we are so focused on what's next or stuck in our past.

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Gary Gruber's avatar

This a good summary: "Setting boundaries, practicing self-care, and pursuing my own dreams and passions are essential for my well-being. " Solitude can be a great gift and there are legions of those whose lives exemplify the value of going alone. Two who come quickly and easily to mind are

Meister Eckhardt and Thich Nhat Hanh. My own life has been far from solitary, more rooted in community and there's much to be said on that as well. Keep up your good work, writing and musing on meaning where you find it and thank you for sharing. I learn from you and from others and that enriches my own practice and life as I have come to know it.

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Marcus Malesela's avatar

I have read Thich Nhat Hanh's collection of books, but not Meister Eckhardt. And yes, living is part of learning, and we are blessed to be living in this times where you can access information and books from the comfort of our home.

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Paolo Peralta's avatar

Keep up the purity of what's true deep inside ❤️

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Marcus Malesela's avatar

For years that which is "true" wished to come outside to see the light, for it is not for me alone. I wish to share it with others now.

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Optiskeptic's avatar

"....to live a happy and fulfilled life—I need to prioritize myself and listen to my own inner voice. Setting boundaries, practicing self-care, and pursuing my own dreams and passions are essential for my well-being." Words of real wisdom, Marcus

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Marcus Malesela's avatar

It's incredible that I am still struggling to comprehend what this new version of myself is trying to communicate. I often wonder, what if every small action we take has the power to alter history?

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Optiskeptic's avatar

Yes... history is only the aggregated consequences of each small action every individual has ever taken...

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Joyce Lim's avatar

A nice article. I enjoyed reading it. :)

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Paolo Peralta's avatar

Me too ❤️

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Marcus Malesela's avatar

Oh, good to see you here Paolo. I hope you have been well. 😊

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Marcus Malesela's avatar

"Not one of my best" as I thought.

I appreciate you reading me Joyce. 😊

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Joyce Lim's avatar

Hmm well I think it's good as it is, Marcus Malesela. It's a good read.. You are welcome, Marcus Malesela. 😊

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Marcus Malesela's avatar

Joyce 🙏

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